This week, we’re still working on getting listeners up to speed on our story. We’re talking about all of the various milestones and moments that led us to our current dynamic. Join us!
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I cannot possibly communicate via blog post how very excited I am to finally be podcasting again! We have really missed podcasting and Twitter and…
This week, we did our first official Quest Episode! We thought, since we’re celebrating the launch of the website, cupcake sitting would be a nice,…
This week, we are talking about a subject that has a really broad array of meanings to people in the kink world – collaring! We…
Last week, we spent some time introducing ourselves and our plan for the Kinkquest.org community. This week, we wanted to get rolling with the fun…
This week, we’re talking about submission styles and the way that sometimes people with different ideas about what submission means can clash in the community.…
That bit about not being psychic is such a crucial point, and one that I’ve had to really struggle with. From the submissive end of things, it’s really, really easy to turn “They don’t have enough energy to interact with me, something’s wrong, I should help” into “They aren’t interacting with me despite me wanting interaction – I guess that’s their decision, and as their pet/kitty/buncup/what have you, I have to go along with that.” and it can get pretty devastating.
I guess that’s where the “necessity” of brattiness comes in. I’m very much one of those praisekink types who wants to do things right every single time, but occasionally that reminder is needed. “I’m thinking about you, and I want to annoy you into thinking about me!” Great stuff!
Also, the surprise anal is yet another reason why I need to invest in a high quality slide whistle.
Thank you so much @Mjao for the thoughtful responses. After 3 years of podcasting, we have NEVER received such thoughtful feedback on our work. It really means a lot to hear your thoughts. (I would TOTALLY dig on the slide whistle!)